Skin Care for Mature Women (Part 2 of 2)

Previously I’ve touched on the topic of how I adore those glowing, luminous and dewy Korean women’s complexions.  I’ve mentioned that I’ve discovered a lot of websites that talked about this and they’ve been raving about this 10-step Korean ritual for some years now.  i don’t have a lot of choices here in Maryland so that one store I know that sells these products  sure got a rainfall from me.

The cosmetics store at HMart carries a few Korean name brands.  My reasearch has told me a lot about these brands but, alas, my budget can only get me far.  So I settled for a less expensive brand but also was getting good reviews.  Most of my products were from Missha Super Aqua and they do work!  So let me get down to my own Korean skin care and hope you do get some tips from my list.

Step 1. Cleansing Oil.

I’ve never realized what I was missing in my clelansing routine until I used a cleansing oil! Cleansing oils work for any type of skin – even oily skins.  When massaged onto the face, it blends with the oils already on your skin.  The oils in your skin could be naturally produced by your body and from your makeup and other products.   So the cleansing oil binds with the impurities on your skin, pulling out the dirt and gets rinsed away when you wash your face.   Because oil-free cleansers strip the skin of natural oils ans leaves it unbalanced, the skin produces more oil to rebalance it.  The excess causes more oils and this leads to problematic skins.  Oil cleansers keep the skin’s natural ph balance thus preventing too much oil to be produced.

My cleansing oil, and I’m on my second bottle now, is Missha M Perfect BB Deep Cleansing Oil.

MISSHA M Perfect BB Deep Cleansing Oil
MISSHA M Perfect BB Deep Cleansing Oil

 

Step 2.  Cleansing Foam.

Washing your face with a cleansing foam is the second part of the double cleansing routine.  This is important because foaming cleansers remove water-based debris.

Doing the double cleansing actually leaves your skin smooth and hydrated.  I noticed that by the time I get to toning my skin, my face is so clean, without any dirt or trace of makeup on the cotton ball I use.

And like my oil cleanser, this is now my second tube of Missha’s Super Aqua Refreshing Cleansing Foam.

Missha Super aqua refreshing cleansing foam
Missha Super Aqua Refreshing Cleansing Foam

 

Step 3. Toner.

I always thought that toners were not important, considering that you’ve cleaned your face with soap already.  But reading about it more and with more than a year now of using it, it actually moistens and preps your skin to easily absorb the other formulation coming next.  Also, it refreshes your skin’s pH balance.

Missha's Super Aqua Hydrating Toner
Missha’s Super Aqua Hydrating Toner


Step 4. Essence.

Essence hydrates the skin to better absorb the next formulations.  But other than that, it also enhances the skin’s cellular renewal process giving your skin elasticity and firmness as well as brightens it. This is also a very important step in the routine.

Super Aqua Ultra Water-Full Boosting Essence
Super Aqua Ultra Water-Full Boosting Essence

 

Step 5. Ampoules, Serums, Emulsions

This is the part of my routine where I apply the formulations that I need for my skin.  Anti-wrinkle? Acne? Oily or Dry? Pigmented? The only thing that you have to remember is that you apply them from the thinnest to the fullest consistency.

Gel Serum

The gel serum I use, Super Aqua Ultra Water-Full Gel Serum, is a clear agent which I use on my face and neck.  It has age-defying ingredients that work as antioxidants, peptides and skin brighteners. They have a light texture that quickly penetrates the skin.

Super Aqua Ultra Waterfull Gel Serum
Super Aqua Ultra Waterfull Gel Serum

 

Repair Cream

This product is one of the 3 latest formulations I have bought that I now include in my arsenal.  All three are made by Mizon and they’re from the Multi Function Formula Snail Repair.  Yes… snail.  Snail extract, most specially in this repair cream, which composes 92% concentration of it, promotes skin repair and resolves skin problems.  There are so many wonders it does, that you might as well read it here.  But to give you a hint of what it can do:

The slime or mucus secreted by these little mollusks that helps protect their exposed bottoms against cuts, bacteria, and UV rays contains a potent combination of elastin, proteins, anti-microbials, copper peptides, hyaluronic acid, and glycolic acid — all known beauty enhancers. Snail mucin is said to do everything from fading dark spots and scars to plumping creases and battling acne. The venom found in ocean-cone snails (as opposed to the garden variety) paralyzes its prey and is thought to relax muscle fibers that play a role in creating wrinkles.

Mizon Multi Function Formula All In One Snail Repair Cream
Mizon Multi Function Formula All In One Snail Repair Cream

 

Ampoule

This is the 2nd product of the snail repair trio.  Ampoules  target dark spots or sagging skin.  They’re very concentrated and very powerful that just a few drops does the job.  The Snail Repair Intensive Ampoule contains 80% of the snail filtrate that helps reduce the appearance of acnes scarring, fine lines and troubled skin.

Mizon Multi Function Formula Snail Repair Intensive Ampoule
Mizon Multi Function Formula Snail Repair Intensive Ampoule

 

Emulsion

Emulsions, applied after serums, seals in all the previous serums, ampoules, etc.  They have a consistency that is lighter than moisturizers.

Super Aqua Hydrating Emulsion
Super Aqua Hydrating Emulsion

 

Step 6. Moisturizer.

I have 2 pair sets of moisturizers I use either for morning or evening.  In the morning,  I apply Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkler Repair for daytime and Super Aqua Ultra Waterfull Clear Cream.  At nights, I put on Neutrogena Rapind Wrinkle Repair Moisturizer for Night and most specially during winter, Super Aqua Ultra Nutritious Cream.

Super Aqua Ultra Water-full Clear Cream
Super Aqua Ultra Water-full Clear Cream
Super Aqua Ultra Nutritious Cream
Super Aqua Ultra Nutritious Cream

 

Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkle Repair Moisturizer for Day and Night
Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkle Repair Moisturizer for Day and Night

 

Step 7. Eye Cream.

This is the last thing I put on.  This is the 3rd snail repair I use – the Snail Repair Eye Cream by Mizon.  The cream hydrates and eliminates the look of fine lines on the skin around the eyes.  It also lightens the dark color of the skin under the eyes.

Mizon Multi Function Formula Snail Repair Eye Cream
Mizon Multi Function Formula Snail Repair Eye Cream

 

So I hope this gives you an idea on how you want to come up with your own skin care regimen.  Just remember, do your research, and read as much reviews as you can.  Some stores might actually give you samples prior to you buying the full bottle.  This actually helps you test on the products first and make sure you won’t have any bad reactions to them.  This is actually a good idea when you think that altho they might not cost much individually, but buying in total, it is still significant.  But when “the shoe fits”, the results can be very rewarding.  Trust me, you will love it.  We can’t stop ageing from happening, but we can delay it much, much longer.

 

“I’ve Learned My Lesson” – Chanel

So now that I’m fuelling up the new blog, I have to start chronicling the outfits I wear.  So last Sunday, after church, that’s what I did with the help of Cez and Anna.

We dropped by Cez’ place for my husband’s rehearsals for their number at a big event at church next Sunday.  So while the sun was setting, I asked Anna if she can take pictures of me outside.  She’s a photo-enthusiast and maybe she can take good pictures of me, emphasis on the MAYBE and the phrase “good pictures of me” – now put those together.  While we were at it, I had a big realization tho that despite seeing and ogling a lot of fashion blogs, I ran a blank on how I should pose in front of the camera.  But I guess that would be forgiven – I have, like, a total of 40 years to undo?

But enough of the excuses!  Here are some of the more “likeable” photos taken by our “little sister”, Anna.  Oh, and maybe next time would even be better – I bought a remote for my camera.  I am about to take my selfies into the next level.

The usual "by the wall" photo.
The usual “by the wall” photo.

Looking at these pictures, I know some of the lessons I learned:

  1.  Take closer attention to the details – that means your accessories, your purse – the little things.
  2. Be more natural.

Till next time!  Ciao!

The right sunlight makes wonders
The right sunlight makes wonders

The Make-Up Rehabilitation

I’m a lover of make-up.  ‘Been putting it on since I was 15 when I started college.  We start early in the Philippines – college, I mean, not make-up.   I learned applying make-up from my maternal grandmother and aunts who used to work as make-up artists for Avon and Beautifont (oh myyyy, does anyone still remember that brand – Beautifont?)   Anyways, they were very good make-up artists.   They used to do theater make-up for Dulaang Sibol, the high school theater group of the Ateneo De Manila University.  One time, they did a magic on me when my mom entered me in a traditional procession in the Philippines called “Sunduan”.  And right there and then, I discovered the wonders these babies can do.  I was, believe it or not… pretty!  (Holy sh*t, who would’ve known???)

And so it wasn’t a surprise, due to that amazement, I started trying to put make up on when I entered college.  Back then it was hit and miss because there was no such thing as Youtube tutorials, or I didn’t know there were books about how to put them on.  All I remember is that I would ask my aunts and grandma so often how this and that worked.  There were so many days that my mom would tell me I had too much on or my wise-assed sister would give me sh*t because I looked like someone punched me in the eye.  But no pain no gain.  The adage “if you want to learn, you will”  held true.  By the time I started working I was an expert on my face.

My dream team. Pia Wurtzbach would be proud!
My dream team. Pia Wurtzbach would be proud!

I started amassing a collection.  Most specially when I lived in Canada and I could afford all the MAC cosmetics I can get my hands on.  It wasn’t just MAC, it was all the other brands – drugstore and boutique.  But I always went back to MAC.

But despite the knowledge I’ve learned thru the years, some things still didn’t look right on my method – my make-up didn’t stay on long or my eyeshadow would all go to the crease of my eye or worse, I still looked pale in pictures.  In fact, it was only lately that I paid more attention on my eyebrows, influenced by my sisters and all the flack I got from them because I looked bald without those manicured brows.

The Sephora gang. Highly recommended by so many good reviews.
The Sephora gang. Highly recommended by so many good reviews.

So I started watching Youtube and reading books on makeup.  That opened up a whole new world for me (yes, sing it with me now).  I know I needed to revamp my style.  But I couldn’t do it with so much old make-up in the way.  You’re supposed to throw away old make-up anyway – it’s not healthy for your skin to use stale make-up.  (I read that!).  So with a fresh garbage bag at hand, I said goodbye to old foundations, eyeshadows, lipsticks, rouges, mascaras.  The only thing I had left were my good brushes (which I gave a good cleaning with baby shampoo), my Anastasia eyebrow paste and 2 eyebrow gels, my shue uemura eyelash curler whose rubber I finally replaced, and other items I’ve had only for the past year.  Purging felt good.  So I threw them all out except for the old MAC ones because, do you know you can actually exchange 7 old MAC items for a free lipstick?  It’s their recycle program that they’ve been doing for so long now.  With all the old ones I had, I was able to get 2 lipsticks free.  Two!!!  Which meant, I had fourteen old MAC what-nots.  Imagine that…

The Walmart haul, some needed brushes and that oh-so-powerful Maybelline Mascara.
The Walmart haul, some needed brushes and that oh-so-powerful Maybelline Mascara.

It took me a week of planning which brands were good, which ones I needed to start with.  I’ve watched so many Youtube videos on how to put on make-up, including Pia Wurtzbach’s ever famous make-up ritual.  Armed with a list of the best and brightest, I happily danced my way to the MAC counter at Macy’s.  Aaaaand this time, I also went to Sephora for some items that were given better reviews than my favorite brand.   I probably did about 3 separate trips because replenishing your arsenal can only do so much damage to your bank account.  But patience is a virtue and the fruits so sweet.  So now, I only have half of what I used to own but I’m proud that I have quality rather than quantity.

I’ve done some experiments and the over-all results seemed to be better.  How different?  This you have to wait for, my sweeties.  I will be sharing them to you as soon as I can take good pictures of myself in the process.  And that will come very, very soon.  For the meantime, I am in search of a very good make-up mirror with very good lighting but isn’t worth both my arms and my legs.

The surviving platoon. All essential, each one playing a fresh new role.
The surviving platoon. All essential, each one playing a fresh new role.

The Photo Poses Throwback Thursday

I needed to put up some profile pictures for this new blog and all my new social media accounts so I went thru our library of pictures that we’ve taken from our digital cameras and the photos I put up on Facebook.  Going thru all those photos was beginning to be frustrating – I only have a few, not even a so-called “handful”, decent pictures of me!  Oh sure, I’ve got a lot of pictures with me in it, but most of them were shot with me looking so pale and tired, not only because I don’t have any makeup on, worse, I don’t have anything on, period.  Not even some powder, nor lipstick and the most dreadful of all – no eyebrows.  If my face looked passable, my outfit was horrific – it was pulling at awkward sides of my body that made me look just that – awkward.  I had the epiphany right there and then – OMG, did I really think this was acceptable?  To look haggard, my eyes looking tired, my unflattering clothes presenting me at my worst?  And this is the me I show in public?

The ultimate, everlasting best photo. Worth every penny I paid that very expensive studio.
The ultimate, everlasting best photo. Worth every penny I paid that very expensive studio.

I know people will say that its vanity talking.  But truth of the matter is, the way you look outside, whether the naysayers admit it or not, does affect the way you feel about yourself.  If you know you look good, chances are, you’re happy with the way you’re presenting yourself and that radiates outwards.  ‘Looking good’ doesn’t mean you have to look like a movie star or that your clothes and shoes have to be expensive.  Its just the knowledge that here you are, all cleaned up, groomed, in clothes that make you feel nice and this boosts your self-confidence and lightens up your spirits.  So not just because you’re not as young as you used to be, it doesn’t mean that you should forgot to dress neat, fix your hair and look sharp.  It doesn’t follow.

Ok, before my parents worry that maybe there’s something bothering me and that’s why I’ve let myself go, I’d like to state, for the record – I am very happy with my life now.  I may be 20 lbs *cough* 30 lbs heavier than when I was younger, but I’m happy with the way I am and I’m proud of how far I’ve gone and what I’ve accomplished.  The sloppiness crept in because maybe I was too happy to care about how I looked in photos… uploaded on facebook… seen by too many people… liked by 50 of them.  Yikes!!!

That coy look started early
That coy look started early.  A “Made with Love by Grandma” outfit.

Now really, I don’t always look bad.  In fact, I love clothes.  I’m a dressmakers’ granddaughter and daughter.  Fashion is something I lived with for a long time.  Its just that, just like everyone, I fall into the fashion don’ts, because they’re sold at a bargain or that I saw them on some hot actress or it was a fad.  And unfortunately, those clothes stayed in my closets and I always have the bouts of amnesia and not remember how it felt or how it looked the last time, and then, I wear them again.  Cursing and telling myself to get rid of them, until the next laundry time and they’re back in the closet.  A vicious cycle, I have to admit.

Really coy
Friday at work and dolled up to hit bars at 5pm. (Check out the timestamp on this picture)

And the make-up?  There’s only one reason – I ran out of time.  Blame poor time management for that.

For the many days that I do it right, I have the unfortunate luck of not being in a crowd where pictures were taken or, like I’ve already said, I made that funny awkward face again.  Yes, my timing lately has always been impeccable.

At a Dude Ranch Christmas Party at my first job.
At a Dude Ranch Christmas Party at my first job.  I made my own hat for the Hat Contest.  I decided to dress as a “Plantation Heiress”

I noticed another thing, too.  All the good pictures I had where my face wasn’t in a tight ball of smile or a guffaw  were taken when I was younger.  My twenties.  Back then, I didn’t pose with my eyes squinting for a smile, my nose in a crinkle, or my mouth opened wide in a laugh.  I was always poised with my head tilted at a slight angle,  a coy grin and I just let my eyes do the smiling.  It made for good photos.  Surely, I was a very young girl with problems with self esteem back then.  Did coming of age and acquiring all these confidence give me the “I don’t care how I look” look?  There must be a connection, right?

One of the much better "I left the house sans make-up" look
One of the much better “I left the house sans make-up” look

I know there has to be a balance between these two stages.  The one where I could look very confident with who I am now and what I’ve accomplished with my life and the one with much reservation about how the world sees me.  I guess, this blog will surely be my testing ground from now on in search of that coveted photo nirvana.

And now I  begin by practicing to give that coy smile again by doing selfies (oh, God, those dreaded selfies!)